I so respect men (and women) who recognize the eroticism of autumn. Yes, sundresses are revealing, flirty; sweaty cleavage is luscious, inviting. But now is the time for sweaters, for pieces of sweaters, for strips of clothing on forearms and calves and necks. Knee high socks, arm warmers, fingerless gloves — they all indicate a certain dishevelment and sexy shabbiness. You’re clothed, but clothed in all the right places. Woolen thigh highs are not sexually protective. A scarf has never stood in the way of anyone’s good time.